“Otherness” by Mariann Moery
I’ve been thinking and reading and wondering what it is within us humans that assigns doubt, fear and distancing to those who are seen as different. “Otherness” is the current naming for it, and it occasionally runs amok through the world.
And it is NOT restricted to any one political party or group.
Literal distance can certainly be a contributing factor, though it is not a requirement. Neighbors can be ‘other.’ A friend was telling me about a current cable series which is based on a society that has two groups. One, of course, socially more elevated with the ‘other’ group bound by rules, laws and behaviors strictly regulated and enforced. Not hard to take that metaphor into daily life historical and current.
But it needn’t be that overt. Each of us carries definitions of what is acceptable and what makes us nervous and reluctant to interact.
City mouse and Country mouse. Even in children’s literature the divide has been recognized.
And yet …
God wills us to have everything. As we express life, we fulfill God’s law of abundance, but we do this only as we realize that there is good enough to go around—only as we know that all of God’s gifts are given as freely and fully as the air and the sunshine… alike to all.
Ernest Holmes: The Science of Mind 459.2
Imagine there’s no countries
It isn’t hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion, too
Imagine all the people
Livin’ life in peace
John Lennon – Imagine
When we realize that God and man are One and not two, we shall love both. We shall love man as an expression of God, and God as the Life Principle in all…. We are to look for God in each other and love this God, forgetting all else. But would this compel us to accept from people that which is not good? Of course not! …for this would be like suffering for righteousness’ sake, which is always a mistake. We should be wise in the ways of the world, as well as imbued with Divine wisdom.
Ernest Holmes: The Science of Mind 459.5
And so the hard and harder part….to accept each and all as emanations of Spirit – the love that knows no bounds – while remaining able to disagree without hate or anger. It has been proven anger overrides intelligence. It limits our vision as to what might otherwise be possible.
It seems the times in which we live are well past ‘interesting’ and deeply into challenging.
My prayer is that enough of us learn to lean past our anger and open to knowing we are all One and that is the only way to move on.
–In Peace, Mariann